From “Shoulds” to Choice: Reclaiming Power and Clarity

Many high-achieving professionals feel trapped in a cycle of endless tasks, obligations, and expectations. On the surface, it may seem like a problem of workload or productivity but often, the real challenge lies deeper: in the language of “shoulds.”

Shivani, a coach who works with high-potential individuals driven by the desire to achieve more, frequently encounters clients weighed down by invisible standards. One client described feeling as though she was “running in circles, saying yes to everything, and still not moving forward.” Her language was dominated by shoulds:

• “I should be more productive.”
• “I should already have figured this out.”
• “I should know better.”

Through coaching, Shivani helped her client reframe these “shoulds” as opportunities to explore what she truly wanted. In a moment of clarity, the client realized: “If I only did what I want… I’d choose very differently.”

This shift was transformative. By letting go of invisible standards and asking, “What do I truly want?”, the client reclaimed her power. The sense of stuckness eased, and she could see possibilities where previously there were none.

Shivani emphasizes that the weight we carry is often not from our tasks, but from the “shoulds” that dictate our choices. Her coaching empowers high-achievers to move from obligation to intention, helping them align their actions with their authentic desires and potential.

For individuals ready to break free from “shoulds” and embrace what they truly want, Shivani’s guidance offers clarity, freedom, and renewed energy to live a life aligned with purpose.

Connect with Shivani Mansingh on LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/shivani-coach-mansingh/